Wednesday, September 3, 2014

15 Tips to Make Your New Relationship Last



15 Tips to Make Your New Relationship Last

New relationship is always hard to figure out!
You have got this guy, that you like or even love
and you dont know how to act around. Well, if
you are in a new relationship and are searching
for some love tips for it, which will make a sense
and work, here is a list of 15 new relationship
advices, which will help you know the way on
how to behave while starting a new relationship!
1. Be honest and open
In all relationships at any stage, its extremely
important to be completely honest and
completely open with your partner. If you do not
want to be caught in a lie and lose the trust you
should tell the truth all the time. Trust me, it is
worth it!
2. Be generous
When you start a new relationship, you should
be generous. It means that youve got to be
generous with your money, your time and
sharing things. Also youve got to be open with
your partner and share your feelings. In this way
you will create a foundation between the two of
you, which is difficult to break!
3. Dont be clingy
What man would like to be with a woman who
clings too much? And what woman would like to
be with a man who clings too much? Being too
clingy is an immediate turn-off thats why you
need remember, if its a new relationship, it
doesnt mean that you should constantly be with
your partner or cling too much to him.
4. Dont overstep the bounds
The next tip for a new relationship is all about
overstepping the bounds. If you often step over
his boundaries that hes set and you often cross
the line with comments, thats a big problem.
You need remember that this is something that
you have to be discussing right up front!
5. Keep flirting
If you have already caught your partner it
doesnt mean that you can stop all of the
romance, end all of the flirting and everything
that made you want to be in a relationship! Keep
flirting, be playful, and keep the spice, girls!
6. Fight fair
Even if youre in a new relationship, there should
be fights. But dont stress and make sure that
you are fighting fair. Of course, it might be
difficult, but its worth it in the end and your
feelings are less hurt! It took me a while to learn
how to fight fair, but when I did, it was much
better in the relationship!
7. Dont assume
Assumption is one of the biggest problems in
any relationship. Thats why, its so important
never assume anything in a new relationship.
Dont assume that he doesnt want to go out,
because he is not in the right mood today. Ask
him before assuming!
8. Get rid of emotional baggage
Carrying old emotional baggage into a new
relationship amounts to clutter. When you start
a new relationship its extremely important to
get rid of that baggage. Emotional baggage can
ruin a new relationship and overwhelm your
partner at once.
9. Depend on someone else
This is an important tip for a new relationship
that you should take into consideration,
especially if youre a super independent girl. If
you want your relationship to last, you should
learn to depend on someone else. Sometimes,
its good for you to lean on him if you need
something and for your partner to take care of
you.
10. Let down walls
One of the biggest adjustments that you have to
make when youre in a new relationship is to let
down all of the walls you have built up around
yourself. I know, this is a difficult one to let go. It
is really hard to let someone inside and let them
know you completely, but it is worth it!
11. Have open communication
Another important tip for a brand new
relationship is having open communication. If
you have never had any open communication
with anybody, it can be extremely difficult to
switch up your thinking and start sharing with
your boyfriend. It seems hard, but it can be
done!
12. Leave the past behind
When youre starting a new relationship, you
should leave your past relationship assumptions
and past relationship habits in the past. This is a
new guy and you shouldnt put everything from
your past relationships on him.
13. Overcome your fear
If you havent slept with a man for a really long
time, you might not be ready to have a sleepover
with your new boyfriend. Its difficult to let
someone in like that, but it can be a great
experience and it is so worth it eventually!
14. Have little surprises
When you are in a relationship, having little
surprises or thoughtful gifts delivered to you or
just coming home to a romantic dinner can
make all of the difference and it will help you
appreciate your relationship. When I and my
partner first started dating, I loved coming home
to a romantic meal once in a while. He would
surprise me all of the time!
15. Include him in your plans
When we are in a relationship, we dont always
think about the other person, but its important
to include your partner in your plans. For
instance, if youre thinking about moving, how
this will affect your relationship? Its okay to
think about yourself, but consider your
boyfriend too.
These are all useful tips for a new relationship.
New relationship might be scary, but it is so
much fun too!